Travel the mile

Travel a mile, recognise my road 

Breathe the air, feel the weight 

Stop aside; sit with me for a while

Refine your thoughts before they become mine. 

Takes a moment to judge, so learn my tale

Takes a lifetime to learn, then judge my case 

Before you know, you'll see a different me 

Late, so what? There's lots to see. 

Climb the stairs, don't forget the fleet 

Hold the ground firm, understand your reach 

My thoughts transcend the dark patches, 

In light, they find your feet. 

A story to tell

A hyper mind, a constant rut, a desire that never leaves.

A river of thoughts carving its way through the barren expanse of one's mind.

Goes on and on, bringing back opportunities that got left behind.

They say an idle mind is a devil's workshop, I say it is an invitation to hell.

Let your thoughts do the talking, a story they are bound to tell.

Look around you - there's a sea of machines. Machines that breathe, machines that talk, machines that achieve.

Sometimes appears a spark, a spark that lets you see. Where is this world headed and where should you be?

There is no stopping then as your thoughts take the lead. Leaving you with nothing but queries to self.

What were you doing while the others  wrote? They wrote the stories you wanted to tell.

If content is the king, presentation is the entrance to his castle

When was the last time you went to shop, picked up a piece of clothing and said - 'wow, the hemming on this piece is done so well' or 'it would've taken really long for them to dye this exact color'? Probably never, unless of course you're a designer or well, just finding reasons not to spend money. 

The point I'm trying to make here is that although we don't notice these things, if they weren't done well, it would convince our decision to purchase them. 

Similarly, when it comes to social media, the concept is the same. The display of our thought process behind building an idea needs to be presented well otherwise the impact is lost. Precise visualisation has therefore, gained so much importance in the last few years. From infographics to animated slideshows, presentation has definitely taken a seat in the front row in this storytelling thriller. 

In the movie, Catch Me If You Can, Leonardo Di Caprio's father told him that the Yankees always won not because they had Mickey but because people can't keep their eyes off the stripes on their uniform. From being a to-die-for gorgeous co-pilot without knowing what's the jump seat in a cockpit to being a Harvard graduate, he constantly displayed efficient presentation skills to get his way around. 

When I was in college, we had to submit a biology journal which had all sorts of intricate dissection diagrams of experiments we had conducted during that month. Being an aspiring systems engineer, one was always overwhelmed by the workload and it was easy to forget essential deliverables. One night I remembered that I hadn't submitted the journal for an entire quarter and next day was the last day to submit it to acquire the subject credits. I had two options - work my butt off and write 43 experiments in one night or make up some excuse and repeat the subject again next sem. The former wasn't possible and I couldn't let the latter happen! So assuming that I would end up failing the subject anyway, I drew all the diagrams and wrote whatever I could (few experiments here and there) in my all time best handwriting. The next day, I submitted it just like everyone else and dreaded the results the week after. Turned out that I aced biology and got a first on the practicals. What had happened baffled me so I asked the supervisor about my journal. She said - "Oh honey your handwriting is a pleasure to read." So basically she read the first few experiments and the last few, saw the neat diagrams and didn't bother going through each and every page. 

Now, I'm not trying to imply that you can fool anyone by merely decorating a good-for-nothing idea/piece of work but what I am saying is that you can lure one into thinking that the effort put into something is obviously worth considering. Especially with all the clutter and competition, one is always looking for good quality work and we as storytellers need to capitalise on that to stand out. 

What do you think? 

Yes, I am 'friends with benefits' with Instagram!

Have you ever been in a super steady relationship and suddenly met someone absolutely stunning who blew your mind? I have!  

The series of events that follow after meeting Mr./Ms. Stunning are usually typical. You try very hard to tell yourself that it's 'just a phase' and you should stick to the life you had before the encounter. You even try to make that happen and either of the following two things happen - you give up on the one you love or you try to manage this complicated arrangement we'd like to call 'friends with benefits" with the new-bee. 

Now unluckily/luckily, the latter happened to me and I'm loving it!  Yes, I am friends with benefits (FWB) with Instagram! And no matter how hard I try to justify my love for Facebook, it just doesn't feel the same. Yes, I admit I do hang out with FB and hear about everything that is happening in our friends' lives but that's about it. There is absolutely no sharing! I initially tried to introduce Insta to FB but no luck. You know, it was almost like a forced attempt from my part that led to blurred results. 

But honestly, when I'm with Instagram, things are so different. It always erases my flaws by filtering them with true love. The best part is that it doesn't have a million things to hide like FB, so we can freely roam about hand in hand confident about not being spotted by someone who we don't want around. 

Lastly, there is so much space in this relationship! Insta doesn't call me all day telling about the smallest things that happened on the planet! I mean the last time it called me was when it launched some super cool video thing. That's legit, isn't it?  

I'm not denying that now and then, I do miss FB and the life we had together. But there is so much going on there with the whole graph search and hashtags thing, that it barely has time for me. I mean even when we meet, it's all about work.

Above all, I heard a while ago that they come from the same family background and live very close to each other. While I keep hoping for the best for FB as it played a huge role in getting me my career, I cannot wait until people realise the importance of Insta in my life! 

Is necessity no longer the mother of invention?

I hear about the greatest inventions of all times like the bulb, telephone, email, etc. and marvel at the way they have made life simpler. The need to keep in touch invited modes of communication, the need to increase productivity in the absence of the sun introduced us to light and so on. Everywhere there was a need that was addressed by intelligent minds.

We get excited about announcements like hashtags on Facebook, video on Instagram or for that matter, longer Dreamliners. Is that it? Imagine the excitement when Edison turned on the switch that lit the room and compare it when we were introduced to say, touch phones. In our times, I highly doubt we will feel that rush, that happiness about solving a problem that could change millions of lives. Hence, we adopted a way to embellish our achievements, decorate them with appreciations and create a hype so strong that people 'think' they are life changing pieces of work. And that's where marketing found its place. Assisted what was good and beautified what was not so good.

Zoom out a bit and take a look at the bigger picture; where are we headed? According to me, we are treading towards a virtual world in which we 'create a need' and fulfil it with something that we want to 'create'.

I can imagine, Facebook 'likes' being used like equity shares by companies, Instagram photos being used at high-end auctions and twitter followers being counted as assets. If you've watched Zeitgeist documentaries, you'd know what I mean when I say that we are constantly forming new entities and running a world that no longer depends on things of the past. It is precisely how the much sort after, money was created by few who could decide what the world  would transact in terms of in the future. 

Will marketers and data analysts lead the transformation this time? Will they be the ones to decide what the public accepts or rejects? Huge responsibility lies ahead, don't you think? 

Hashtags and the road to social embarrassment

Just a few weeks ago, I came across an update on Facebook that read something like this: '#Workout #at #the #gym - #bestfeelingever'. And this was before Facebook even hinted upon introducing hashtags! I wanted to know (for the mere satisfaction of my own intrigue) the rationale that went behind hash-tagging words like 'at' and 'the'. 

I mean how wrong had Chris Messinar (founder of the concept of hashtags, 2007) gone in conveying the hashtag story?! When it comes to a lot of people I know, it seems like he went pretty wrong.

 So this guy's answer to my question was that he posted that photo directly from Instagram and hence, the hashtags. But it still didn't answer the #at and #the! Never mind, I let him enjoy the sheer joy of adding that fancy sign wherever he wanted. 

I am no social media genius or hash-tagging queen, so I had to teach myself the art of hash-tagging a few months ago as well. So when I think of hashtags, I think of various clubs we had in school. You know how being popular was synonymous to being a part of all the cool groups in school? The more one participated, the easier it was to be noticed by like-minded people or for that matter anyone. 

According to me, it works the same way for the content you curate through various social platforms that support hashtags. If you want to make your content 'participate' in meaningful conversations or get 'noticed' by people who will possibly be searching for similar interests as yours; be my guest and hashtag all you want. But it is important to remember that while you are busy inventing meaningless hashtags on your own, especially using random names of people or sentences as long as Adriana Lima's legs; someone out there in the digital media landscape is having a good laugh! 

We all are aware of water surfing, isn't it? Think of hashtags as the waves surfers use to ride upon. Let your content ride upon existing available hashtags to have a smooth sail. So if you're up for the hashtag game, take a deep breather and repeat after me - 'Using a gazillion hashtags at once in a sentence will not make me rich or better than my ex's boyfriend/girlfriend.' 

Happy hash-tagging! 

Father's Day 2013 - What's the story?

It's very natural to take things for granted all our lives until we lose them.
The infamous statements from heartbroken girlfriends - 'I didn't know what he meant to me until we broke up' or my family's reaction to our cook declaring his vacation - 'The scrambled eggs will be different from now on' and so on. Everything/everyone has a way of being missed and nothing we can do can reverse that feeling.

Until last year, Father's Day was just another marketing gimmick I noticed because the store, Archie's made it so obvious with their tacky advertisements. This year, it seems like everyone around me is talking about Father's Day gifts, brunches, etc. Suddenly, my focus went from Burberry's new collection to the ties they had displayed for Father's Day and from real estate adverts on the radio to the ones screaming about Father's Day. 

My father had a simple philosophy - 'no day comes again'. So he never believed in giving one specific Sunday more importance than any other day. And it was not only for Father's Day, I once told him about the importance of the date 11/11/11 and his response to that was - "So you are trying to imply that something like a 8/9/10 or 2/4/09 will come again? So what's the big deal about 11/11/11!".

With not so much excitement about this particular day as a kid; it was a usual ritual, I would get my father a card and write a short note. My father never had an off on Sundays so I would leave it with my mother because he was long gone before I woke up.

I'm not the only one who lost her father comparatively early in her life, so do people like me become a minority for present marketers? Isn't there any story  curated for us?

If I was in their position, I'd be weaving a great story about how my mother plays the role of my father, sometimes, even better than he did. Why wouldn't any luxury brand touch upon this emotion? Why wouldn't a Burberry introduce a boyfriend shirt for those mothers who play a dual role for their children?

In a recent book I am reading - 'All Marketers Tell Stories', Seth Godin talks about how you have to appeal to a small niche group in the market who share the same worldview (thought process) and they will help you forward your story to the larger audience. 

Aren't we ideal ones to buy a story, a story that doesn't make us feel like outcasts on a day like Father's Day? I really believe that it's true that people have started following trends and trust people like themselves more than people of authority but, at the end of the day we buy something because we tell ourselves a tale. A tale that justifies the need for something or someone. 

Isn't that the reason why people buy expensive phones, designer clothes, trusted cosmetics or even luxury cars? Father's Day isn't just one opportunity to explore, there are millions! And masses waiting to be tapped. The question remains who'd take the risk to take advantage of their sensitive spots elegantly.